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12 Oct

Posted at 15:11h in Divorce, Dr Eris, Marriage

         Sexual Violence affects millions of Americans everyday          Every 2 minutes an American is sexually assaulted   In the current presidential campaign we have a candidate, Donald J Trump, who was heard, and seen, on video proudly boasting about being able to kiss and grope women and “move on” a married woman “like a bitch” and then passed it off as “Locker Room Talk.” Moments after the video was released, women (and men) across the globe began to experience deep feelings of anxiety, depression, fear, sadness and helplessness. Some reverted inwards with a sense of powerlessness and...

22 Sep

Posted at 10:11h in Parenting

Even though it seems like divorce is happening all the time (over 50% of all marriages end in divorce and that number is even higher with celebrities and the entertainment business), there's still the occasional surprise, like Angelina Jolie's announcement yesterday which shocked the airwaves and “broke the internet”. Some celebrity marriages seem more solid than others, but the break up of Brangelina reminds us all that we don't actually know what is going on behind closed doors; the fans just see what’s happening in the limelight. We only get a glimpse of the trailer, not the whole script. The “once...

21 Sep

Posted at 00:13h in Divorce, Dr Eris

When Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie first fell in love on the set of Mr. & Mrs. Smith I was skeptical on how long their relationship would last. Pitt had an affair with Jolie, after all, and the statistics of rebound relationships having longevity are very slim. But, as the years passed, the couple seemed to have a strong united front and were dubbed as Hollywood’s “Golden Couple”. Jolie would boast about what an amazing father Pitt was. And Pitt had a sparkle in his eye every time he mentioned Jolie.   So, when I found out that Jolie filed for...

25 Aug

Posted at 12:37h in Dr Eris, Marriage

Happy National Kiss & Makeup Day! We all have arguments with those we love. Whether a marital tit for tat, an argument with a bestie, a clash with a co-worker or a feud with a family member, we all can relate. For some it takes a kiss to let go of the hurt that we feel in our heart. For others, it takes some counseling because we need to say more about what is going on. But, it is not a bad idea to start with a kiss, in fact, it’s a great way to break the ice after a grudge...

03 Feb

Posted at 22:32h in Dr Eris, Marriage

What does it take to have a conscious REALationship™? Defining REALationship Relationship is defined as: re·la·tion·ship [ri-ley-shuhn-ship] -noun 1. a connection, association, or involvement. 2. connection between persons by blood or marriage. 3. an emotional or other connection between people. 4. a sexual involvement; affair. A REALationship™ focuses the REALity in the relationship. 3 keys to A REALationship™ are: HUGGING. The Physical nature of a REALationship™. TALKING. The Mental nature of a REALationship™. BEING. The Spiritual nature of a REALationship™. (loving, communicating, living) HUGGING is the physical nature of a REALationship™. This includes holding hands, looking each other in the eyes, kissing, caressing, and making love. This may seem obvious but too often we overlook...

03 Feb

Posted at 22:29h in Dr Eris, Marriage

Dr. Eris, Ever since I was a kid, I felt forced into Valentine’s Day, and forced into expressing love in a way that I’m not ready to. This occasion ruins the natural process of love. It’s a complete set up, which I think was created by the female of the species. I care about my current girlfriend; but with Valentines Day right around the corner, I’m put into this position once again. I don’t know how to express myself, or what to give her. I even have the thought of breaking up with her before the holiday and then getting back...