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03 Feb

Posted at 22:13h in Divorce, Dr Eris, Marriage

Even though many relationships end up in break-ups or divorce, that doesn’t mean that yours has to. There are many relationships that last 30, 40, and even 50+ years. I have worked with many clients who were separated or on the brink of getting divorced who succeeded at turning things around. Even I have gotten to the point with Clayton where I thought that it was time for things to end. However, before I did that I wanted to “walk my talk” and use the tools that have helped so many of my clients. And it worked! The good news is that if it worked for...

01 Feb

Posted at 23:09h in Divorce, Dr Eris, Marriage

Dear Dr. Eris, I’ve been in a relationship for over a decade. He proposed to me after 6 months of dating, but it has never felt completely right to me, which is why I’ve had a “long engagement”. There’s security in our relationship together, however, he can be very mean. My son, who has known my boyfriend as a father for his entire life, is turning 11 years old. I can see his general disdain is having a negative impact on my son’s self-confidence. I feel that leaving the relationship would be best for myself and my son in the long run,...

01 Feb

Posted at 22:00h in Dr Eris, Marriage

Arguments happen all the time – when you least expect them. No matter what kind of relationship you have — with bosses, friends, girlfriends or wives — it‘s inevitable that you will have to deal with disagreements. Its how you deal with them that matters. Here are some healthy ways to argue that I suggest. I give them to my clients and I’ve tried them at home and they seem to work for me. Don’t make personal jabs. Stick with how it makes your feel. Be vulnerable. Say I’m afraid right now, or I’m feeling overwhelmed with work, the kids, emails,...

01 Feb

Posted at 21:47h in Divorce, Dr Eris, Marriage

Dear Dr. Eris, I am a 38yr. old stay at home mom and wife.  We have one 7 ½ yr. old son and my husband and I are approaching our 13yr. anniversary.  We have a pretty great life the three of us we adore our son and each other.  However, in the recent years my husband and I feel more like roommates than spouses.  We talk to each other very briefly during the day about superficial things.  I am home all day with our son and no car so I don’t get out much and he works as a full time...